At each activity we try to spotlight one girl. We will call their mom ahead of time and ask her a series of questions about her daughter. We do the spotlight in the beginning, but after the prayer and everything. We read the clues about the girl and after they have been read, anyone who thinks that they know who it is can take a guess. That girl also get a special treat, like her favorite candy bar or treat. We have even does flower clips. Anything small (that won't cause jealousy!) works great!
Here's the questionnaire. If you would like it in Word form, just email me!